Saturday, 29 December 2012

LIFE AND PEOPLE

I have encountered some extremely disturbing situations from past experiences, and quite recently on social media, and  I am terribly sad to know that there are so many of us lost, helpless, sore and tired of living. It’s difficult to sum everything up in a few words, but we do live in a society that isn't uncommonly friendly and doesn't truly care for anyone. We start to get depressed when we get disappointed by our friends or those we think were our friends. We get angry at being ridiculed and ignored. I know how frustrating it can be. I have felt the emptiness, and I have been lost several times. BUT, I can guarantee you, there's so much more to life. I have been reading some motivational and inspirational books, and I must say it has been tremendously helpful.

I will give you some words that I hope can help. They have helped me and are still helping me. Even though, you might think it's all pretend, know this. We usually don't like what we don't understand. And we don't understand life, we don't understand people, we don't understand the system, we don't know God. Life is not fair. Everyone knows that, but we keep dwelling on the contrary and that has been my experience for the most part of my life. I am beginning to see a purpose and an opportunity to choose what I make of my own life. At the end of the day I am accountable to myself and that is enough reason to make me adjust my thoughts to a more positive one.

I suggest to you to start living a different life. Learn to appreciate and to learn about things in order for you to learn. Don't go the conventional way; it's all lies at least from my point of view. Laws, media and mainstream ideologies.

Learn to love your self, have confidence in your self. To do that, you need to know you are good and capable of anything you want to do. Do you believe that? Anything you wish. It's not a law. You won't get it simply because you are living. You don't get a harvest because you want a harvest. If you plant you will reap, Not if you want you will reap; again if you plant you will reap. If success didn't have a price, everyone would be a success. You have to be willing to take chances, and I am doing that now.

Great places to gather more Knowledge:

Rags to Riches
Rich Dad, Poor Dad
Think and Grow Rich
The Magic of thinking big

These books are about: how people are. The different types of people there are and their mindsets and the manner in which our individual brains work, etc. When you learn new things, your brain opens up. You don't have to be the same person today as you were yesterday. Human beings are the only ones that have this capacity to choose what they want to do with their lives. Every other person just follows the natural flow of life. I know it's hard. It's hard to stay in this world. Every one faces one problem  or another  but trust me not everyone comes out of it alive or in ‘’one piece’’, and not everyone has the courage to take the harsh realities of life.

Here's one of Jim Rohn's teachings:

Every and each one of us is in a sailboat.
The wind blows on us all.
The wind of opportunity, the wind of disaster, the wind of change, the wind when it's favorable and unfavorable.
The wind blows on us all.
The difference in arrival isn't the blowing of the wind, but the set of the sail.
If the wind of disaster will hit every one of us. If the change will take part in every life. If there will be opportunities and moments that are favorable and unfavorable for Every one of us, then it isn't the blowing of the wind that will determine where we arrive in life; it’s the set of the sail.

It's not what happens that determines our life's destiny, but the way we respond as a result of what has happened. We have the opportunity to be much more than what we are today.

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